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		<title>There is No Place Like Home for the Holidays</title>
		<link>http://rkpr.com/2009/12/04/there-is-no-place-like-home-for-the-holidays/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2009 05:53:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>liz</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[After spending eleven months hitting the slopes, relaxing on the shores of Tahoe and seeing the leaves transition from green to a golden yellow, winter is finally here. And let me tell you, there is no place like Reno to spend the winter. There is something so peaceful about being the only one on Virginia [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri;">After spending eleven months hitting the slopes, relaxing on the shores of Tahoe and seeing the leaves transition from green to a golden y</span><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;">ellow, winter is finally here. </span><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri;">And let me tell you, there is no place l</span><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;">ike Reno to spend the winter. </span><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri;">There is something so peaceful about </span><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;">being the only one on Virginia S</span><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri;">treet as the snow falls on a quiet winter night, especially during the </span><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;">first heavy storm of the year. </span><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri;">There is nothing more refreshing than seeing the entire community gather together to celebrate the season and see the </span><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;">30 </span><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri;">year old Christmas tree light up downtown or to hear all the chit chat about the upcoming Santa Pub Crawl that gathers people from all over the nation.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri;">Nothing clears my mind more than putting on some ice skates and gliding around the River Rink or strolling through the festive lanes of Legends</span><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;"> in Sparks to Christmas shop. </span><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri;">The holiday f</span><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;">eeling the area gives provides </span><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri;">me with a warm fuzzy feel</span><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;">ing on those cold winter days. </span><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri;">Well, that an</span><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;">d a nice warm cup of hot coco. </span><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri;">Reno is alive with it adventure whether it is winter, spring, summer or fall and makes me feel so blessed to be a part of<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>this community.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Man I love this place!</span></p>
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		<title>Student Lead Motivation</title>
		<link>http://rkpr.com/2009/12/01/student-lead-motivation/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 02:15:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ronele</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[November 2 marked the first night of the University of Nevada, Reno Extended Studies 4-week class, “Google is Your New Business Card: Building a Valuable Personal Brand,” that I was invited to co-teach. The goal was to equip the participants with the knowledge, tools and resources to begin to develop their personal brand online and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Verdana','sans-serif'">November 2 marked the first night of the University of Nevada, Reno Extended Studies 4-week class, <a href="https://www.cisweb1.unr.edu/cxs/CourseListing.asp?master_id=1637&amp;course_area=LEAD&amp;course_number=203&amp;course_subtitle=00">“Google is Your New Business Card: Building a Valuable Personal Brand,”</a> that I was invited to co-teach. The goal was to equip the participants with the knowledge, tools and resources to begin to develop their personal brand online and the motivation to continue to do so. By November 30 the class wrapped. And while I can’t speak on behalf of the participants and if they found the course valuable, here&#8217;s what I walked away with.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Verdana','sans-serif'">Point of entry:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </span>Everyone in the course started from different places. Some were quite proficient and for others it was brand new. The ability to communicate the importance of say Twitter versus a Facebook Fan page in a concise and effective manner really pushed me to think of experience beyond my boundaries. It drove me to see it from their position and how these tools could have a direct impact to personal brand and business interests.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Verdana','sans-serif'">Information gathering:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </span>The flood of information available online can be overwhelming. However, anyone who is a student of social networking understands the importance of RSS feeds and social bookmarking to be efficient with their time. Without these two resources there’s no way I would be able to recite a fact, remember a case study or provide examples during the class.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Verdana','sans-serif'">Validation:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </span>We all want validation that we’re doing something right but social networking is a different ball game. There is no right or wrong way. It’s about maximizing the socials sites to provide the value you need based on your vision statement and goals.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Verdana','sans-serif'">Learn from anyone: The neatest thing about social networking is that everyone is learning at different speeds and anyone can find new feature or an easier way to do something. This is especially true for newbies who have an incredible knack for finding new tricks. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Verdana','sans-serif'">I</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Verdana','sans-serif'">nteraction feeds knowledge: My personal quest for learning more was enhanced greatly throughout the course. Questions and the personal desire of the individual participants drove me to not only find answers but be active in the process.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Verdana','sans-serif'">My thanks go to <a href="http://www.bretlsimmons.com/">Dr. Bret Simmons</a> for inviting me to co-present and the students for their active participation that motivated me to learn and do more. </span></p>
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		<title>New UNR Extended Studies Course Focuses on Personal Branding</title>
		<link>http://rkpr.com/2009/10/16/new-unr-extended-studies-course-focuses-on-personal-branding/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 10:04:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ronele</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If Google is your new business card, then managing your personal brand online is critical. The University of Nevada, Reno Extended Studies Program offers a new course this November designed to assist students with hands-on techniques to build the online presence needed to remain competitive in today’s economy. “Google is Your New Business Card: Building [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Verdana','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">If Google is your new business card, then managing your personal brand online is critical. The University of Nevada, Reno Extended Studies Program offers a new course this November designed to assist students with hands-on techniques to build the online presence needed to remain competitive in today’s economy. <a href="https://www.cisweb1.unr.edu/cxs/CourseListing.asp?master_id=1637&amp;course_area=LEAD&amp;course_number=203&amp;course_subtitle=00">“Google is Your New Business Card: Building a Valuable Personal Brand”</a> is led by social networking, branding and entrepreneurship experts Bret L. Simmons, Ph.D., assistant professor at the University of Nevada, Reno, and Ronele Klingensmith, president of RKPR Inc. The 10-hour, four-session class assists students in discovering their personal brand and how to develop valuable content around that brand.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Verdana','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">“With Google being a 21st-century electronic business card, it communicates one’s personal brand to the world&#8211;with a click of a mouse anyone can learn about you,” said Simmons. “Combine that with today&#8217;s intensely competitive business environment, and it’s even more essential to actively control what is being said about the value of someone’s unique skill set. You can control your brand and that’s what this course is about.” </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Verdana','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">Through hands-on coaching from social-media experts, students will learn how social-media tools correlate, as well as the most effective ways to use the tools discovered to create a personal brand. It will also go beyond traditional social networking sites such as <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/home?trk=hb_logo">LinkedIn</a>, <a href="http://www.facebook.com/">Facebook</a> and static websites to demonstrate how to create and operate a dynamic <span class="hl">blog</span> and develop a presence on <a href="http://twitter.com/">Twitter</a> the right way.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Verdana','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">Klingensmith founded <a href="http://rkpr.com">RKPR Inc.</a> in 2002 to provide clients with innovative communications strategies. With her 17 years of communications experience, Klingensmith offers a broad range of expertise with a variety of clients in various industries with strong emphasis on travel and tourism, focusing on the integration of social networking, new media and integrated communications. She holds a Bachelor of Arts in journalism from the University of Nevada, Reno and received her Accredited in Public Relations (APR) certification in 2003 from the Public Relations Society of America (PRSA). </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Verdana','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><a href="http://www.bretlsimmons.com/">Simmons</a> teaches classes in organizational behavior, entrepreneurial psychology and research methods at the University of Nevada, Reno. His research currently focuses on positive organizational behavior and employee performance. In addition to academic publications, his research has been featured in articles by US News &amp; World Report and USA Today.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Verdana','sans-serif'; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-bidi; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">Class dates for “Google Is Your New Business Card” are November 2 and 9 from 6 to 9 p.m. and November 16 and 30 from 6 to 8 p.m. Registration is required for the course, for information <a href="https://www.cisweb1.unr.edu/cxs/CourseListing.asp?master_id=1637&amp;course_area=LEAD&amp;course_number=203&amp;course_subtitle=00">visit online</a> or call the Extended Studies office at 775-784-4046.</span></p>
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		<title>Personal + Professional = Enthusiasm that Delivers</title>
		<link>http://rkpr.com/2009/04/06/personal-professional-enthusiasm-that-delivers/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 02:49:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kristen</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A recent exchange on Twitter got me to thinking, when you become a public relations professional do you lose independence and credibility when making recommendations or talking about things you like?  I’ll start with the exchange so you get my drift: A twitter user is looking for the best driving route from Point A to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;">A recent exchange on Twitter got me to thinking, when you become a public relations professional do you lose independence and credibility when making recommendations or talking about things you like?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>I’ll start with the exchange so you get my drift:</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;">A twitter user is looking for the best driving route from Point A to Point B.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>A discussion begins with another user noting that flying is best because the drive is a bore.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>I respond noting all of the beauty along the drive. The other counters my recommendation because I happen to work with several tourism clients that are along the route.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;">Sure, I do have clients along the route, but I’ve also driven it many times when my husband was living at Point A and I was at B.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>We’ve driven it on vacations since then, and yes, I’ve driven it for work.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>And every single time it’s been fascinating.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>And I’m entitled to this opinion, whether it aligns with my goals at work or not.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;">I have yet to come across a client that I’m not truly excited about. That’s because we believe in our clients and are genuinely interested in them—who they are, what they do, what they’re about.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>We don’t just take on clients because it’s business.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>We take them on because we WANT to. Then we immerse ourselves, learning as much as possible about them.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>We visit their location, attend their events or test their products.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>I like to think that our work reflects that enthusiasm.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;">Often that enthusiasm spills over into our personal lives (or stems from it).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>But if I’m passionate about something, I’ll talk about it, on my own time and in my own space, regardless of whether they’re a client.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>I’m an independent with my own likes and dislikes.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>I’m also a credible, trustworthy and honest person—and public relations professional.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span></span></p>
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		<title>40 Days and 40 Nights – Give Up or Give Back?</title>
		<link>http://rkpr.com/2009/03/31/40-days-and-40-nights-%e2%80%93-give-up-or-give-back/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Mar 2009 18:12:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>emily</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lent is a Christian tradition that stems from the 40 days that Jesus fasted prior to his crucifixion.  Beginning Ash Wednesday and concluding on Easter Sunday, observers of Lent are to celebrate and recognize the sacrifice which Jesus made for his people.  Growing up in an Italian Catholic home my family observed the Lenten season [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;">Lent is a Christian tradition that stems from the 40 days that Jesus fasted prior to his crucifixion.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Beginning Ash Wednesday and concluding on Easter Sunday, observers of Lent are to celebrate and recognize the sacrifice which Jesus made for his people.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Growing up in an Italian Catholic home my family observed the Lenten season by not eating meat on Fridays and attending mass every Sunday.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Another tradition in the Catholic Church is to give up an item or habit that is often times abused or over consumed. For example, when I was younger I gave up chocolate for 40 days.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>As time passed I continued giving up things like soda, cursing, alcohol and most recently eating out.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;">This Lenten season it was my goal to give up spending money dining out…allotting me three outings a week.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Some might say I am cheating the system because I’m giving myself a “cushion” of three outings.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>However, on a weekly bases I was buying a bagel and coffee <em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">every</em> morning at a local muffin shop, getting a sandwich, soda and chips for lunch and then heading out every now and again for dinner.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>So, I set my goal to be as realistic as possible by allowing myself this “cushion.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>One day I sat down and calculated what I was spending weekly on my little “dining adventures” and I averaged $100 a week, which means I was spending about $400 a month on food outside of the groceries that I bought for my house.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Oh, and these totals did not include nights out with friends on the weekends.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;">People automatically assumed I was giving up dining out for health reasons, but I was actually more concerned about my wallet and bank account than my health.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>As I thought about what I was giving up I realized how selfish what I was doing, sounded.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>In fact it brought up a number of different questions: <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>1) Are my spending habits affecting anyone but me? No not really, except that now the muffin shop and delis are losing a small profit. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>2) Is what I’m giving up really a sacrifice or is it something that should be practiced regardless of the Lenten season? <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>3) Is it fair that I am totally benefitting from this?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>According to the Bible Jesus sacrifice himself for us.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>My giving up spending money doesn’t directly affect anyone but myself.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>I debated with a co-worker about these thoughts and she brought up the argument that sometimes it’s okay to do something for yourself and that sometimes we don’t focus enough on ourselves.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>While I think that is a valid argument, I still feel like I am doing something wrong.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: &quot;Verdana&quot;,&quot;sans-serif&quot;;">Giving up chocolate as a child, practicing not cursing as a teenager or giving up alcohol as a college student is just fine when you’re that age.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>However, as a grown adult who now has the opportunity and means to give back, I’ve decided that, I will no longer practice the Lenten season by giving up an abused or over consumed item or habit, but I will do something for someone else.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>I will donate my time, my knowledge and my experiences with those who can benefit from them.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Throughout the year I will do my best to recognize my abused habits and fix them as I go, so when the next Lenten season rolls around I will be able to focus on someone other than myself.</span></p>
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